hi just read ur post, no one is able to say u look ok only u know yourself how u feel about the way u look as is no one can do anything about it only u can. which is why i decided to do sommat about my weight i was 13 st 10 and i am watching what i eat and am now 11 st 6 and i want to be 9 st 10 as im 5ft7. if u r not happy then only u can take control and shift it, its not easy i know especially as some days my weight stays the same. but i lose about 2lbs a week now some days are easier than others especially with 2 kids at home with there sweets but it is worth it i promise u that good luck kind regards linda